This is a biography of my
grandmother. I interviewed her at her apartment on the 15th July
12, 2006. Her name is Pon Bte Abu. She was brought into this world in the year
1938 and lived in a ‘kampong’ in Batu Pahat, Johor with an older sister and
parents. Her elder sister is still living in Batu Pahat and she often visits
her especially during Hari Raya.
Her father worked at the jetty
for ferries as a supervisor. She can hardly remember him. Her mother was a
housewife as well as a cloth seller. They were not rich but neither were they
poor. They lived a happy life together. In those days, parents were very strict
particularly in terms of manners. My grandmother said that her parents never
smacked or whacked. Instead, they would glare at her for a long time before
pinching.
My grandmother was never bored as a
child. There were a lot of games to play. Some examples are ‘congkak’, five
stones, catching, throwing rubber bands and many more. She also learnt how to
cook and sew at a young age. I was told that cooking and sewing were a “must”
for a girl in the past. She was not mischievious and did not play any pranks.